Lost in the wreckage...
lifehackable:

More Motivation Here
landscapelifescape:

Colorado Rockies, Denver, Colorado, USA
Sunrise Over The Front Range by kkart

landscapelifescape:

Colorado Rockies, Denver, Colorado, USA

Sunrise Over The Front Range by kkart

battybeka:

"Body positivity is bad cause it’s glorifying obesity"
okay but like, whatever?? sorry for thinking that 9 year old girls going on diets and wanting liposuction is a bigger deal than fat girls in crop tops??

21 Struggles Renters Are All Too Familiar With
I don’t relate to most of them, but this one is perplexing. I never heard you can’t paint your appartment. Landlord don’t do that, you do it *condused*.

21 Struggles Renters Are All Too Familiar With

I don’t relate to most of them, but this one is perplexing. I never heard you can’t paint your appartment. Landlord don’t do that, you do it *condused*.

uhhh? What doesn that mean.By standing beside a woman she’ll look good and the mess in her appartment dissapear?

uhhh? What doesn that mean.By standing beside a woman she’ll look good and the mess in her appartment dissapear?

blackbarmitzvahs:

Can you imagine the conversation though?
Queen: I’m going
Chief of Staff: But, Your Majesty, the security risks…
Queen: I’m going I want cake 
Chief of Staff:
Queen: 
Chief of Staff: 
Queen: I want cake

blackbarmitzvahs:

Can you imagine the conversation though?

Queen: I’m going

Chief of Staff: But, Your Majesty, the security risks…

Queen: I’m going I want cake 

Chief of Staff:

Queen: 

Chief of Staff: 

Queen: I want cake

I tought tumblr was fun/interesting place to post stuff, not start any drama or war of words (I have my share on a forum, thank you)

I guess I was wrong

eh, cute animals

badonlinedaters:

ok-creeper:

fiaspice:

I feel like I’m on mIRC back in 1999 when all forgein dude wanted to marry me (ewww, I was 15 back then).

He livse not only ouside of my prefered zone which is crealy stated, even in English, he’s in a freaking other country and have way too much dealbreaker difference. Only after the wedding, no way for me! I wonder how the hell he even scored 71%

Here is what I have found as a man. When there are clear requirements that you have that are deal breakers, put them in the summary at the top, that way they are seen immediately. This is what I have seen many women do, and it really makes it easier for guys to know right away before they see what other things they like about you.

I’m not implying that it will stop all the guys, but many will not message if it is clearly stated at the top.

OK Cupid should really fix the layout and put the “looking for” and “message me if” sections at the top, but I’m sure there are psychological or marketing reasons why they don’t.

The match % is explained here

They actually mention an importance of ‘mandatory’ but I have never seen it on any question. I wonder if it has not yet been implemented, or if it was removed.

In any event, the fewer questions someone answers the more likely they will be a higher match. If I only answer 10 questions, and you answered the same 10 questions the same way, then we could, in theory, be a 90% match with 0% enemy, even if you have answered 1,000 questions that I skipped. So, always look at the number of questions answered as it does make a difference. And the enemy % I have also found to be valuable - I find that more than 10% enemy is usually not a good match, but that is just my opinion.

Edit: I just had an idea about why they do things the way they do — advertising. The more profiles you visit, the more ads are displayed, and the more time you spend reading a profile, the longer the ads are present. At the end of the day OK C *wants* you to waste as much time as possible on their site because that is how *they* get paid. It is a balancing act for them, so the harder they make it for you to find your exact match, the more money they make, but if they make it too hard, they will lose too many subscribers. They need to make it “just useful enough” to get subscribers, but not so efficient that you can find what you are looking for without seeing a whole bunch of ads.

I actually have an issue with a lot of what you just said, but I haven’t had enough caffeine yet to address it all, so I’m just gonna mention that when I answer questions from my phone it gives me the “mandatory” option, but not when I answer on the laptop. Which I find strange, but what’re ya gonna do, right?

I just cringe at all the spelling mistakes I made. Sorry

I’m twice cafeinated and I don’t even understand/know how to address.

Nevermind the %, this dude is in freaking India which is, acording to OKC more than 10,000 km away from my little quite big city in Canada. Yet 50 km is far for me. I’m not mail in oder bride (and I’m no virgin anymoe!)

towongfoo:

If I dont respond to your insult it means what i wanted to say was too mean and I decided to let you live

tastefullyoffensive:

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I feel like I’m on mIRC back in 1999 when all forgein dude wanted to marry me (ewww, I was 15 back then).

He livse not only ouside of my prefered zone which is crealy stated, even in English, he’s in a freaking other country and have way too much dealbreaker difference. Only after the wedding, no way for me! I wonder how the hell he even scored 71%